What is family violence?

Family violence is behaviour of another family member that makes you fearful, makes you do things you don’t want to, or is used to control you.

This section will help you to understand:

  • what family violence is
  • when children are exposed to family violence.
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What is family violence? 

Family violence is:

  • violence, or a threat of violence, by someone towards a family member, or
  • any other behaviour that coerces or controls another family member, or causes them to be fearful.
What are some examples of family violence?

Family violence is not just physical violence or threats of violence. It can include forms of financial, emotional and psychological abuse.

Some examples of behaviour that is family violence include:

  • assaults – being hit, kicked, pushed, spat on
  • sexual assault
  • stalking or cyber-stalking
  • repeated insults or critical comments
  • damaging or destroying property
  • killing or injuring an animal belonging to a family member
  • controlling finances or being unreasonable about providing money needed to meet reasonable living expenses
  • keeping a family member away from their family, friends or culture
  • depriving someone of their freedom
  • threats, demands, or pressure from your husband or his family, to you or your family, in relation to money or gifts exchanged in return for marriage
  • sharing or threatening to share intimate personal pictures/videos. 
When are children exposed to family violence?

Children can suffer serious psychological harm from being exposed to family violence.

A child is exposed to family violence if they see, hear or experience the effects of violence, such as:

  • overhearing threats of violence
  • seeing or hearing an assault of a family member
  • helping or comforting a family member who has been assaulted
  • cleaning up a place after an assault or property damage, or
  • being there when police or ambulance officers come after there has been family violence.

How can I stay safe if I am concerned about family violence?

For information about Legal Aid WA services and other services and supports that can help you stay safe see:


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Reviewed : 3 March 2020


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